Change......

What is change? I believe most people would prefer others change than change by themselves. What do you think?
I have a guy friend. He always expect his wife to be a perfect wife, perfect mother. While he asked me this question, I asked him back "Since you expect your spouse to be a perfect wife for you, perfect mother for your children". Many time we have never ever wondered that "Are we perfect?"
Where there're people, there will bound to be disputes, differing view point and criticisms. If one takes to heart ohters' critical opinions, one will suffer and lose one's own stand. In the end, one will lose even the purpose of one's own life. Is it not the saddest thing when one becomes the slave of others' opinions?
So, before we urge for somebody to change. We must look into ourselves first before changing others!